Someone who knows... I received a partial hysterectomy a year ago. My drive has almost ceased to exist.?

I have lost what was once a great drive and am heavier than I have ever been in my life w/o being pregnant. I have one ovary left and have had my hormones tested, which came back normal. What I feel is not normal. My husband, who is very supportive and understanding, and I have done lots of research on the problem. I am not me anymore. I am on a mission for recovery. This is not fair...it is like a bad side affect that I wish I could undo. Who knows what I am going through and have you found a way to really help? I know about the menopause side affects and blah...blah...blah....I have researched it all. Has anyone seen a encronologist and seen results....something??????